Stories Worth Showing Up For

Jeff, Erika, and I were sitting at supper in New York when all three of our phones got a DING—it was Liz. Her daughter Eva had seen Erika’s then-and-now Facebook post featuring us. Beneath … read more

By the time Elizabeth asked for blue frosting, we had already had a fairly thorough discussion about what makes a good biscuit. She had helped mix the ingredients, worked cold butter into the flour, a … read more

In sixth grade, I often ate lunch alone. I remember that about the year as clearly as I remember anything else: the feeling of being near other children without quite knowing where I belonged among th … read more

A Field Guide to the Many Ways We Show Up I grew up as one of four children. Same parents. Same house. Same rules—or at least the same rules as each of us selectively remembers them. But we were … read more

We spend an extraordinary amount of time trying to give children things they'll remember. We plan the vacation. Buy the tickets. Wrap the presents. Make the reservation. Take the pictures. Stay up too … read more